ON HATERS.

No matter what you’re putting into the world as an artist and/or product developer, there’s always going to be a hater.

One of the most common hater arguments: I can get _________ a lot cheaper/for free at ___________.

It’s easy to wring your hands and respond in an ugly way, since this is a hater hitting you in the wallet.  Remember, however, that this statement is true.  It’s no reflection on you for a cheapass to point out that wedding photography on Craigslist is only $40, or that there are thousands of free _____ products in the world.

You get what you pay for, and haters always want it cheaper.  If you get this e-mail, at least you know your work is close to being priced appropriately.;)

Another hater argument, common among photographers: oh, _______’s work is so totally overpriced. MY work is so much better.

Let’s remember that when a photographer brings in $20,000 for shooting a few hours of wedding photography and delivering a fabulous album, the industry as a whole is valued, appreciated, and monetarily viable.  Whether you like the work of x or not, those photographers who are commanding a great deal of money for their work are the rising tide that’s raising all ships.

My guess is that jealousy is speaking, right at that point where you devalue someone else.  Instead of pointing fingers, why not work on your own pricing strategy, lovely?

The ultimate hater argument, even more common among photographers: ___________ totally sucks, I don’t know why anyone pays attention to ___________ and why ___________’s blog has had x million hits.

Again, that’s jealousy talking.  If someone walked into your studio and told you that you’d be receiving x million hits to your blog in the next year, you wouldn’t turn it down.  You would be ecstatic.  Your self-esteem would probably go through the roof, your business would benefit monetarily, and my guess is that you would soon be launching a product or workshop aimed at sharing your knowledge.

Don’t let the big green monster make you a hater — remember to blog regularly.  To add that x factor of humanity, blog about yourself once for every three times you blog about photography.

Finally, the most common hater argument, from clients and photographers: I CAN TOTALLY DO THAT.

Maybe you can, maybe you can’t, but it’s insulting to say it.  I’ve handed my camera to clients who commented about how awesome my camera was, asking them to go ahead and make magic happen.  (Want to see a middle-aged, very-smug man shut up in a nanosecond?  Try it sometime…)

If we won’t accept that behavior from our clients, don’t go saying it about others in the industry.  Maybe you can light a couple with three strobes in the dark in front of an abandoned factory during a wedding time crunch and land on the cover of PDN, but you didn’t.

Minimizing other’s achievements, integrity, and creativity only demeans the photographic industry.  Don’t go there, honeybun.

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Gretchen Davis - February 22, 2010 - 12:01 pm

Great words and reminder – just do your own thing, right?!

ezra - February 18, 2010 - 9:12 pm

It’s Apprecia-Love!

Christine - February 17, 2010 - 2:00 pm

Oh thank you for this post, I’ve had a week full of haters… are they all like that?? Anyway, this makes me feel better! Have a good day! :)

Marissa Rodriguez - February 17, 2010 - 12:17 pm

This is GREAT! GREAT! GREAT! VERY well said!

johnwaire | photo - February 17, 2010 - 11:26 am

i REALLY hate this post! :)

Michelle Tippmann - February 17, 2010 - 8:44 am

Well said!

Christine - February 17, 2010 - 5:00 am

So ironic to have read your post this morning (first thing, in my email! you always start my day off!) and then to have found myself dealing with a hater post later in the day.

This actually helped keep me calm about the whole thing though, and in the end we found a way to understand each other’s opinions instead of ending up in an ugly Hater war. Although I did tweet about your post, suggesting everyone should read it! :D

Maalaea - February 16, 2010 - 7:45 pm

I love it! Such a great reminder to focus on my own growth and not others!

I’m going to pass this on!

Kristine Paulsen - February 16, 2010 - 5:41 pm

Thank you for posting this – we could all use a dose of positive energy and a dash of humility and respect.

I certainly hope there are many photogs out there reading this who are evaluating their attitudes, whether or not they fall into the negative category.

It’s always good to take a step back and reevaluate how we see the world, our own business and our colleagues and competition.

Thanks again!

emily - February 16, 2010 - 5:33 pm

I seriously just read this straight though 2 times. So appropriate right now. So great, well said!

Anne-Marie - February 16, 2010 - 3:14 pm

Great blog post. Though I don’t do photography (huge fan of Christine Tremoulet work though!), much of this blog rang true for all art in general. I agree with Sarah above – if we could take that negative energy and flip it into something more positive, we would all be better off.

dustin meyer - February 16, 2010 - 3:08 pm

As I’ve said before, “When you pay peanuts, expect monkeys”

Thanks for posting this,
Dustin

Huong - February 16, 2010 - 1:03 pm

Hi! I also really enjoyed stumbling upon this post and have blogged about it as well :) Thanks for sharing!

Ashley - February 16, 2010 - 12:41 pm

This is exactly what I needed today!

brandcampblog - February 16, 2010 - 12:08 pm

LOL — well played, Stacy, and deeply ironic. We all value different things, and I value SEO about $39 worth. To those who find it work $2k, more power to ‘em! :)

muyiwa - February 16, 2010 - 11:58 am

Brilliant post – it reminds me of a Bambi Cantrell workshop I went to. She tells the story wonderfully. Someone said “Wow no wonder your pictures are so awesome – you have a badass camera!” She said to herself “When you go to your mom’s for Thanksgiving, do you say – wow mom, this meal is delicious – your stove is incredible!”

Stacy Reeves - February 16, 2010 - 11:50 am

This is a great post, and something we definitely all need to hear. I think every photographer at some point in their career has been both the hater and the hatee, it’s a vicious cycle! Regardless of what you think of (Insert Rockstar Photographer here)’s work, you should respect the fact that they’ve made a name of themselves and they’re making money and they’ve got happy clients, and you should try to learn everything you can from their example.

On a side note, I don’t want to be a hater and all, but I did find it a little ironic that you’ve got an ad on the side of your blog that says “KNOW THAT $2,000 SEO WORKSHOP? THIS WILL SAVE YOU $1,961.” Isn’t that kind of a form of hating? Why do you need to bring down the guy doing the $2k workshop in order to lift your own workshop up? Isn’t that basically a modified form of the hater arguments listed in the post?

Kylene - February 16, 2010 - 11:23 am

Kharma will always come back to bite you in the butt.

EVELYN SAVAGE - February 16, 2010 - 11:20 am

UMMM….I’ll be retweeting this NOW. I love the clarity that my online friends bring to my life. Hugs to you!!! And Happy Mardi Gras ::::brings in hypnotist::::: “BRAND CAMP BLOG WANTS TO COME TO NOLA” ::::::okay, i’m done! heehee.

brandcampblog - February 16, 2010 - 10:53 am

Absolutely, Christina! :)

Sarah - February 16, 2010 - 10:44 am

Great post! Just imagine what we could do if we took that hater energy and focused it on our own work and business…

Eliza Claire - February 16, 2010 - 10:43 am

LOVE this post! I want to ‘favourite’ it and come back and read it weekly!

Christina Sloan - February 16, 2010 - 10:39 am

I LOVE THIS! May I share it on my blog?

Michelle Sidles - February 16, 2010 - 10:35 am

“Don’t Hate… Appreciate.” Yep. Thank you high paid photogs for being brave and having high prices. I’m trying to raise mine up to bring more value to the industry, too. But it’s “scary” business. Great post. :)

Karyn - February 16, 2010 - 10:07 am

Amen. Great post. Maybe the haters just need hugs. For that matter – we all need more hugs. =)

Meredith Perdue - February 16, 2010 - 9:30 am

Such good advice! It’s so easy to compare one’s work, website, blog, etc. to another’s. How can you focus on your own growth and success if you’re preoccupied with someone else’s? Thank you for sharing!

Erica - February 16, 2010 - 9:17 am

I needed to hear that. Good reminder!!!

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